Break up rules
Hi Hubbers,
I get asked alot when to break up...first of all, the biggest mistake and ladies do this alot is to use the word break up as a method for seeking attention.
Break up happens when either both parties (which is rare) feels they are fed up with the relationship or one person feels he/she is not getting what they deserve.
Ask yourself: am I happy or am I coping? Is how he/ she treats me good for me? Does he / she talk right to me? Then ask yourself who am I without he/she?
Some of us get so submerged in to our partners that we don't know ourselves without them, we don't know our ability without them. Other times we bear the burden of the harsh relationship because of marriage. "I'm getting old, I want to get married". Newsflash: men have the best nose in smelling a desperate chic for marriage and they will bend you far worse than panel beater.
Never lose self worth. A man/ woman should not complete you but complement you. People chase after the fact that a man would make them complete well alot of women in marriage have been cut down six times than they were before they got married so I wonder how complete they are🤷
Who are you getting married to; the man or the ring? When a relationship reduces you below your worth(after much dialogue on how you feel) walk!
When you walk, rediscover yourself and put a better price tag.
Remember, the three points in break up is coulda, woulda, shoulda. Don't break up if you are going to look back and say oh! I could have done this or I would have done this or I should have done this. Instead take a personal mental time off before saying break up.
That's today's gist. Hope it's the coffee that starts your day. Still waiting on comments so we can start healing our hearts😜
XOXO
I get asked alot when to break up...first of all, the biggest mistake and ladies do this alot is to use the word break up as a method for seeking attention.
Break up happens when either both parties (which is rare) feels they are fed up with the relationship or one person feels he/she is not getting what they deserve.
Ask yourself: am I happy or am I coping? Is how he/ she treats me good for me? Does he / she talk right to me? Then ask yourself who am I without he/she?
Some of us get so submerged in to our partners that we don't know ourselves without them, we don't know our ability without them. Other times we bear the burden of the harsh relationship because of marriage. "I'm getting old, I want to get married". Newsflash: men have the best nose in smelling a desperate chic for marriage and they will bend you far worse than panel beater.
Never lose self worth. A man/ woman should not complete you but complement you. People chase after the fact that a man would make them complete well alot of women in marriage have been cut down six times than they were before they got married so I wonder how complete they are🤷
Who are you getting married to; the man or the ring? When a relationship reduces you below your worth(after much dialogue on how you feel) walk!
When you walk, rediscover yourself and put a better price tag.
Remember, the three points in break up is coulda, woulda, shoulda. Don't break up if you are going to look back and say oh! I could have done this or I would have done this or I should have done this. Instead take a personal mental time off before saying break up.
That's today's gist. Hope it's the coffee that starts your day. Still waiting on comments so we can start healing our hearts😜
XOXO
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